Most of us know how
stressful, destructive and unproductive family
law disputes can be. At best, the experience
is one of having strangers (lawyers, judges,
experts, etc.) make the important decisions
for us. All too often family litigation becomes
a breeding ground for anger, suspicion, fear
and anxiety.
Now there is another choice
available to people faced with family law disputes.
At the heart of Collaborative
Law is the belief, shared by the parties,
that it is in their best interest and the best
interests of the family to resolve differences
with minimal conflict and without going to court.
Independent Lawyers with
Common Values
- Collaborative lawyers
help resolve disputes without resorting to
adversarial techniques or tactics
- Collaborative lawyers
try to understand concerns of both parties,
and help them achieve win - win solutions
for them and their family
- The focus is on solutions,
not posturing and rhetoric
With the guidance of your
specially trained Collaborative Family Lawyers:
- You and your spouse will
take control of your case
- You will identify the
subjects that need to be addressed
- You will discuss your
differing perspectives
- You will develop and consider
alternatives
- You and your spouse will
make all of the decisions
- The result will be an
agreement that is truly yours - not one that
is imposed on you
The Collaborative law process
works when it is more important for you to solve
problems and work toward fair solutions rather
than to fight it out in court. In the adversarial
system both parties risk losing – by increased
legal costs, by increasing the risk that neither
party will be awarded what they are seeking,
and by fighting one another and undermining
any potential for an ongoing amicable relationship,
especially where children are involved.
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